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Judge That You Be Not Judged

One way in which the father teaches his son wisdom in Proverbs is through observation of what others are doing and the outcomes of their ways of life. He calls upon his son to look at the skillful man (Pr 22.29) as well as the ways the father himself (Pr 23.26.28). The son is not only to learn from wise examples but also the unwise. The father tells his son of a young man who puts himself in a bad place and is seduced by Harlot Folly. He watched the whole incident, and it didn’t end well for the young man (Pr 7.6-27). He also passed by the field of a sluggard and noticed that his vineyard was in complete disrepair and overgrown with thorns. He looked and considered, “How did it come to this?”

The father calls his son to watch and learn, to judge the way of wisdom from positive and negative examples so that he himself will not fall into judgment. As Christians, we don’t mind looking at the positive examples and noticing for ourselves or pointing out to our children these examples to follow. But we wince when we think about using the bad examples of others to teach others. We don’t want to be “judgy.” The limit of the explanation to our children, for instance, might be “There but for the grace of God go I.” We say that almost as if God’s grace is a magic spell that kept me from being there, but God didn’t perform the same magic on the other person. We want to avoid pride (a good impulse, to be sure), but in order to do so, we practically deny all the choices that were made that put that person in the position in which he now lives.

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Friend or Folly

Friendship is vital to our humanity. We desire friendship because we are created in the image of the Triune God who is eternally in friendship as Father, Son, and Spirt, and, like him, our mission can only be completed in a community of friendships. The mission God gave us in the beginning cannot be completed by an individual. We need friendships; from the friendship of marriage (cf. Song 5.16) to same-sex friendships to broader societal connections, we need friendships at various levels to complete what God has given us to do. It is not good for man to be alone. Friendships, therefore, are not an optional accoutrement to our humanity.

The drive to have friends is innate in everyone. We want connections, people with whom we can share life. We are broadly connected to all humans so that every person we meet is a friend. The command to “love your neighbor as yourself” in Leviticus 19.18 can rightly be translated, “love your friend as yourself.” There is a sense in which everyone is a friend with whom we are connected and to whom we owe our love. The Bible not only speaks of friends in this broad sense but also speaks of friendships of various degrees of intimacy. Friends of the king (for example, Job or Jesus in John 15) are his trusted advisors. A husband is the wife’s friend (Song 5.16). There are friends and there are friends.

While we owe a friendly duty to all those with whom we come in contact, we don’t share the same intimacy with all. Indeed, we must take care with whom we become close friends because of the way deep friendships shape us. Friendships involve an “entangling of souls.” The soul is our whole person animated before God and the world. Our lives get wrapped up with someone so that our emotions, will, mind, and heart are connected with the other. Jonathan’s soul was knit to David’s so that he loved him as his own soul (1Sm 18.1). That is a close friendship. In these types of friendships as we “share souls” with one another, we take on the characteristics of the other so that our mannerisms, speech patterns, desires, and the direction of our lives blend with the other person.

The entangling of souls can be good for us or bad for us. Paul proverbially tells the Corinthians, “Bad company corrupts good morals” (1Cor 15.33), recognizing this general principle. This is why Solomon and his wife direct their son to be careful about friendships from the start of his instruction (Pr 1.8-19). His son is to avoid the gang of young men who are unhinged from God’s wisdom. He is not to walk in the way with the wicked; he is to “avoid it; do not go on it; turn away from it and pass on” (Pr 4.14-15). He is to recognize Harlot Folly by the way she speaks and dresses and avoid her as well (Pr 7). Wisdom is to be called his “sister” and insight his close friend (Pr 7.4). He is to seek out Lady Wisdom for his intimate companion. He is to walk with wise men (Pr 13.20).

Some Christians out of misguided love and distortion of mercy might believe that the avoidance of entangling ourselves with the unwise, the rebellious, is selfish. However, Proverbs is quite clear in its directives, and its wisdom is embodied in Jesus himself. Jesus walked the way of wisdom and called others to join him. If they were willing to follow him, to join him in the way of wisdom, he was willing to be patient with them and help them along the way. However, he was willing to cut off relationships with those who did not want to walk or continue to walk with him. The rich young man who appeared to be a hot prospect for the kingdom turned away from Jesus’ call to walk in the way. Jesus didn’t run after him. At one time, after Jesus spoke about being the bread that came down from heaven, many quit following him. He turned to the Twelve and asked them if they would leave him as well. He was not deviating. He was willing to let them go if they didn’t want to continue in the way of wisdom.

As you choose friends, take care. They need to be on the same path of maturing in wisdom. You cannot save the undisciplined, slothful, angry, drunk and glutton, so don’t mix with them (Pr 22.24-25; 23.19-21). The sin magnet that is in you will be drawn toward the atrophy and disorder that characterizes them, and then you will be able to help no one. You will need someone to help you. Find friends who are walking in the way of wisdom and join them, encouraging one another, and so be saved from destruction and be productive in our common mission.

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By In Discipleship, Family and Children, Wisdom

The Limited Power of Parenting

Any of us who have been parents for a while have felt the weight of responsibility and the sense of inadequacy that comes with the task. We don’t know enough. We’re going to make a mistake that destroys our child’s life. How can I know that I am doing this right? No matter how many children we have, we are ever learning so that the rearing of each child feels like an experiment.

This weight of responsibility and sense of inadequacy should keep us humble before God, seeking his wisdom from the Scriptures and others who have passed this way before. Even with all of our perceived or real deficiencies, as Christians, we should approach our parenting with confidence. We can do this because we know that when God entrusts children to us, he has given us a calling we can handle.

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Marriage Wars

The following was delivered at the wedding of Michael Jones and Kaitlyn Jack.

What we are witnessing here today is becoming more and more counter-cultural in Western Civilization. The foundations of Western Civilization have been cracking and crumbling for some time now. As men’s abdication of their responsibilities became increasingly evident in the eighteenth and nineteenth centuries, precipitating the rise of Feminism, the seeds were sown for the destruction of marriage and, with it, a stable civilization.

First, women wanted to be equal with men, and they believed that the greatest codification of that would be the right to vote, which is now enshrined in the Nineteenth Amendment to the US Constitution. But the seeds of discontent with biblical structures continued to grow. In the second wave of Feminism, women declared their independence from men. Gloria Steinem proudly declared that a woman needs a man like a fish needs a bicycle.

Men stood by and watched while the serpent continued to convince the woman that God’s structures were oppressive. Consequently, the seeds continued to grow, and in the third wave of Feminism women essentially declared, “We are men.” There are no differences between biological men and women. Our outward displays may be different in some respects, but we are the same. This led to where we are today with the declaration that there is no such thing as men and women; gender is fluid; it’s all in what you feel.

All along the way, men watched and gave tacit approval. Why not? Feminism fed men’s slothfulness.

With the rise of Feminism came the sexual revolution, and with it the availability of sexual relationships without the commitment. Whereas the prevailing culture of chastity and honor encouraged men to take up the responsibilities of a husband, now they could have all of the sexual benefits without the responsibilities. Besides that, with seventy percent of divorces being initiated by women who then leave the man penniless and kept from his children, many men are seeing marriage as a bad business deal.

Women are frustrated because they were told that they could have a career, marry late, and still have all they want. They are discovering that they were lied to.

Marriage has been damaged deeply in our culture. From the hook-up culture to high divorce rates to homosexuals demanding to be recognized as married, God’s institution of marriage, which is fundamental to the stability of any society, is mocked.

But here, today, Michael and Kaitlyn stand before God and witnesses to receive God’s gift of marriage. This gift is given to you, Michael and Kaitlyn, to enjoy. Because you are receiving God’s gift in the way that he prescribes it, there is a reward that comes with it. There is the freedom to enjoy one another without guilt; to know and be known by one another in a way that those who do not obey God will never experience. Enjoy God’s gift to you.

God’s gifts always come with responsibilities. You are stewards of his gift. You enjoy marriage, but marriage does not belong to you. God created marriage for a larger purpose than the personal enjoyment of the individual man and woman. Marriage is a mission. More particularly, it is a military mission.

As I alluded to earlier, we are in a war, not just over the definition of marriage, but the purpose of marriage in the world to help establish the kingdom of God in the world. God instituted marriage as one of the tools or weapons to complete the mission of bringing the world under the lordship of his Son; to see the world patterned after his heavenly abode. The structure of marriage with the man as the head, the woman in submission, and children obeying their parents is not arbitrary and merely a practical way to function. These structures reflect the deep structures with the relationship of God himself that is the pattern for all of life.

Marrying this day before God and witnesses, you are committing yourself to be warriors in this fight. You will do so, not with guns a-blazing, but by simply living out God’s structure and purpose for marriage.

Michael, as you take the lead, determining the mission of the home, part of which is cultivating Kaitlyn’s beauty as a woman, you will be taking up the responsibilities that many men in Western Civilization have neglected. Kaitlyn, as you submit to the loving headship of Michael, helping him in his God-given mission, you will be taking up the responsibilities that many women in Western Civilization have scorned. As the Lord wills and you have and rear godly children, you will be providing even more weapons for the fight. In doing all of these things, you will be faithful to the purpose for which God gave marriage.

Be bold! Be brave! Take up your responsibilities with courage and fight the good fight.

In the name of the Father, and of the Son, and the Holy Spirit.

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Letters To Young Men: Discipline

People look for the shortcut. The hack. And if you came here looking for that: You won’t find it. The shortcut is a lie. The hack doesn’t get you there. And if you want to take the easy road, it won’t take you to where you want to be: Stronger. Smarter. Faster. Healthier. Better. FREE.

To reach goals and overcome obstacles and become the best version of you possible will not happen by itself. It will not happen cutting corners, taking shortcuts, or looking for the easy way. THERE IS NO EASY WAY. There is only hard work, late nights, early mornings, practice, rehearsal, repetition, study, sweat, blood, toil, frustration, and discipline. DISCIPLINE.

THERE MUST BE DISCIPLINE.

Discipline: The root of all good qualities. The driver of daily execution. The core principle that overcomes laziness and lethargy and excuses. Discipline defeats the infinite excuses that say: Not today, not now, I need a rest, I will do it tomorrow.

What’s the hack? How do you become stronger, smarter, faster, healthier? How do you become better? How do you achieve true freedom? There is only one way. THE WAY OF DISCIPLINE. (Jocko Willink, Discipline Equals Freedom: Field Manual MK1-MOD1, Expanded Edition, 2-3, emphasis original)

Created in the image of the Divine Warrior (Ex 15.3; Ps 78.65), you are a warrior. This is the calling given to you by birth about which you have no choice. You are either a faithful or unfaithful warrior, but you are a warrior. Warriors have a mission. I wrote to you about your mission a while back. You can find those letters here and here. The only way to achieve the mission is through discipline. You want your disciplines to become habits, routines and automatic responses to given situations. However, no matter how ingrained your habits become, discipline will always be required. There will always be a pull toward sloth and, consequently, atrophy. You must resist this. You resist through discipline.

Discipline is training to accomplish a mission. This training involves the correction of wrong and unproductive behavior as well as strengthening your abilities to meet challenges to achieve the mission. The two are interrelated. You bring your mind, will, emotions, and body under control in order to direct them toward positive ends. Discipline is not done for discipline’s sake. We discipline ourselves for a purpose, a goal. These goals may be short-term goals with clear, measurable characteristics at a point in time (for example, a bench press 1RM or a certain amount of money earned), or they may be ongoing purposes that are measured by progress over time (for example, staying healthy or becoming a better husband and father). Whatever the nature of the goal, discipline is the process by which you achieve the goal. Discipline is the ability to maintain your focus, not allowing the extraneous and distracting to overcome you.

Discipline is a fight; a fight against a disordered self and creation that is resistant to change. But you are a warrior, called and equipped to fight this fight; to shape the creation into order. This fight begins with you: your body, your mind, your will, your emotions.

In good circumstances, discipline begins when you are children, imposed on you by your parents. Your mother and father are called as parents to train you, telling you what to say “no” to and what to say “yes” to. Parents are to drive foolishness–rebellion against God and his wisdom–from your hearts with the rod of correction and instruction in righteousness (Pr 13.24; 19.18; 22.15; 23.13, 14; 29.15). The calling of fathers and mothers is to set you in order, to arrange your lives according to God’s wisdom.

When you are young, discipline primarily comes from outside of you. But the goal of parenting is to train you in order that you might learn how to train yourselves. Hearing, seeing, and receiving wisdom through the rod and instruction were always aimed at you treasuring wisdom in your hearts so that you would see its beauty, desire it, and seek after it (Pr 2.1-5; 4.20-27). Progressively, as you grow older, you must fully own the responsibility of your mission and, therefore, the discipline to achieve it. This must be the case whether you had faithful parents or not. Sitting around wishing things had been different in your childhood, that you had parents who had trained you is a waste of time and energy. You can’t change the past. All you can do is deal with your present reality and work with what God has given you in his providence. Don’t sit there and mope and wallow in self-pity. You must take up the mission. That is still your responsibility. No one else can do it for you. Others can only give you wise counsel, but they can’t force you to walk in the way. If you do not learn how to discipline yourself, you will not escape discipline. No one can. You will either discipline yourself or you will be disciplined by others. You will mature in wisdom, growing in self-discipline, or you will be a fool and have situations and others beat you in the form of loss of jobs, relationships, criminal punishment, or in a myriad of other ways.

Self-discipline is key to accomplishing your mission. Indeed, self-discipline is a fundamental part of your mission. Remember, you are a plot of earth, created from the dust of the ground. From you will come either good fruit or thorns and thistles. Much of what determines what is produced is how you cultivate the soil. Before you can impose order on the world and make it productive, before you can be trusted with this greater responsibility, you must first learn how to handle what you have. If you can’t order your own person, how are you going to bring order to the world?

Self-discipline is freedom. It is the freedom from being controlled by outside circumstances as well as the whims of others. Even in unpleasant circumstances over which you have no control, you can still be free. Circumstances and people don’t dictate your attitude (cf. Phil 4.10-13). Self-discipline keeps you in control of yourself so that others can’t manipulate you. Those who lack self-control (literally, the ability to hinder one’s spirit/breath) are like cities broken into and left without walls (Pr 25.28). The lack of self-control, the ability to discipline yourself, leaves you vulnerable to attack by others.

Self-discipline or self-control, however, leaves the walls up to guard you against the enemy. You are to be a walled city, a plot of earth with boundaries that protect you from the outside and allow you to move freely inside in order to accomplish your mission. Freedom is not life without limits. Freedom is the ability to be what you were designed to be. You are not free to be a woman, for instance. There are boundaries, walls that must be recognized.

Discipline begins, then, with self-knowledge. You must know who you are and what you were designed to do. (Again, refer back to the “Mission” letters.) You must recognize your limits and work within them to maximize your potential. Knowing your boundaries aids you in determining your focus, keeping you from setting your eyes on the ends of the earth (Pr 17.24), thinking you can be whatever you want. You are wasting your time and energy on worthless pursuits if you don’t discipline yourself to stay within your God-given boundaries.

God sets broad boundaries for men and women and, then through his providence, he sets specific boundaries on each individual that range from physical ability to the place you are born in the world to the intellectual resources with which you have to work. Your limits must be tested to discover what God may have hidden. “It is the glory of God to conceal a matter; it is the glory of kings to search a matter out.” (Pr 25.2) You have to test the limits of your strength physically, mentally, and emotionally. Sometimes this will result in injury, pain, and frustration, but then you know your limits. You back off and re-focus.

As Jocko alluded to in the opening quote, there is no hack, no shortcut, and no magic formula to self-discipline. You know who you are and what your mission is. Everything that contributes to the accomplishment of that mission you say “yes” to. Everything that doesn’t contribute to the accomplishment of that mission you say “no” to.

“It’s just not that simple.” Yes, it is. The concept of discipline is simple. It’s the practice of discipline that is difficult. It is difficult to say “no” to what you want to do at the time. I have dealt with many people through the years who, when it came right down to it, just don’t want to do what is necessary to get the results they desire. They want to keep doing what they are doing with different results. They will whine, complain, and moan, not because the answer is complicated, but because the work is difficult. The way you overcome this is just do what is necessary; tell your body what it will and will not do. Paul, speaking about self-discipline, says this to the Corinthians,

Do you not know that in a race all the runners run, but only one receives the prize? So run that you may obtain it. [Note the mission] Every athlete exercises self-control in all things. They do it to receive a perishable wreath, but we an imperishable. So I do not run aimlessly; I do not box as one beating the air. But I discipline my body and keep it under control, lest after preaching to others I myself should be disqualified. (1Cor 9.24-27)

You tell yourself what you will and will not do. As Jocko says in another part of his book Discipline Equals Freedom, “’How do I get tougher?’” Be tougher. ‘How can I wake up early in the morning?’ Wake up early. ‘How can I work out consistently every day?’ Work out consistently every day.” (12) When people say, “Well, I’m just not motivated,” all they are saying is, “I don’t feel like doing it.” Part of discipline is doing what you don’t feel like doing because it is the right thing to do and contributes to your goal. The farmer doesn’t want to weed the garden all the time. The athlete isn’t always motivated to lift and run. A husband is not always excited about going to a job. A father is not always thrilled about dealing with disobedient children. You don’t feel like praying or reading the Scriptures. You’re tired. You don’t want to deal with it. If you let these feelings dictate what you do, if you let your “lack of motivation” determine your goals, it will be like a creeping disease. “A little sleep, a little slumber, a little folding of the hands to rest, and poverty will come on you like a robber and want like an armed man” (Pr 6.10-11; 24.33-34). Your lack of discipline–slothfulness–will rob you of your goals.

Your emotions must not be what trains you. You must stay focused on the prize. Proverbs deals quite extensively with emotions, especially anger. A man given to anger is one who lacks self-control; he is controlled by his circumstances. He believes his anger demonstrates power. It doesn’t. It demonstrates weakness. His outbursts of anger reveal a feeling of loss of control and helplessness. He is trying to regain control of the situation through force. We feel powerful when we’re angry because it gives us tremendous focus. However, not being able to control our anger, while giving us focus, causes us to lose perspective. Not being able to control your anger will cause you to act foolishly (Pr 14.17, 29) and stir up strife (Pr 15.18). There will be stiff penalties to pay for uncontrolled outbursts (Pr 19.19). However, a man slow to anger is “better than the mighty; and he who rules his spirit than he who takes a city” (Pr 16.32). Anger itself is not evil. Jesus was angry (Mk 3.5). God is a God of wrath. There are times to be angry. But anger must be under control and serve the mission. The difference between sinful, unproductive anger and proper anger is discipline, keeping anger within boundaries and focused on righteous ends. It must be made a servant and not allowed to be the master.

While Proverbs focuses much on anger, the same could be said for other emotions as well. They must be servants. They must be made servants to your mission. Discipline is able to keep focus through the emotions, give them proper expression, while always keeping them under control.

Disciplines of the body will aid you in disciplines of the mind. Body and mind are integrated. The rod can drive foolishness from the heart (Pr 22.15) and “blows that wound cleanse away evil; strokes make clean the innermost parts” (Pr 20.30). There is a connection between bodily pain and the discipline of the heart/mind. Physical pain trains. When you are a child, physical pain comes through the rod. (And if you grow up to be a fool, then the rod will continue to be used; Pr 26.3.) As you grow older and self-discipline, you learn how to inflict pain on your own body. Whether it is the pain of sleep deprivation, physical exercise, eating certain foods and avoiding others, or other areas, physical pain in many forms is a part of discipline. No pain. No gain. Pain is a part of life. Like anything else, it will be your servant or your master. You will either inflict on yourself, using it as a servant, or others will inflict it upon you as your master.

Some will speak of “spiritual disciplines” over against or distinguished from disciplines of the body. Though the category of spiritual disciplines can be helpful in some ways, I am cautious about using the phrase. Spiritual disciplines, especially in our time, tend to be understood as set over against physical disciplines. Weight-lifting is a physical discipline. Reading the Scriptures is a spiritual discipline. One deals with your body while the other deals with the immaterial part of you and your relationship with God. Where this dichotomy is present, the thinking is wrong. As mentioned earlier, blows that wound cleanse away evil. The rod drives foolishness from the heart. The Scriptures know nothing of these divisions. Weight-lifting is a spiritual discipline, and reading the Scriptures is a physical discipline. Training my body, bringing it under control, and keeping it as healthy as I am able, sharpens my mind with which I love God (Mt 22.37). Reading the Scriptures involves my physical body. We are not compartmentalized creatures. Everything we do must contribute to our mission of bringing order to our lives and the creation around us. This includes prayer, reading/hearing the Scriptures, caring for our bodies, as well as other disciplines. You are not fulfilling your mission if you are well instructed in the Scriptures but you neglect to subdue your body. Neither are you fulfilling your mission if you seek to subdue your body but neglect being instructed in the Scriptures. Every discipline contributes to the mission.

The benefits of discipline are numerous. Here are a few. Discipline reduces anxiety. Because you have a focus, you know who you are and what you are doing, you are not being pushed and pulled by every whim that comes along. Anxiety is created when you feel that you are out of control. Discipline doesn’t allow what everyone else thinks and demands of you to control you.

Discipline cultivates strength. The more you practice something, the better or stronger you become. This is true, of course, with physical exercise. The more the muscles fight resistance, the more they grow to adapt to the stress. The same is true mentally and emotionally. The more you discipline yourself, the tougher you become. The more you face your fears with disciplined behavior because they are obstacles to your goals, the more you will overcome them and the stronger you will be the next time.

Discipline makes you productive. The disciplined farmer who goes through the daily grind eventually sees fruit. When you employ positive disciplines in your life, disciplines governed by your God-given mission, you will see results; they may not be immediate, but you will see results.

Discipline yourself. You are a warrior. Discipline is the path to victory and freedom. Discipline yourselves to receive wisdom by listening to good counsel, not being arrogant. Discipline yourself physically to maintain a healthy body and sharp mind. Discipline your minds through reading and listening to that which contributes to your mission. Discipline your emotions, making them your servants. Discipline yourself so that you may be free.

For Christ’s Kingdom,

Pastor Smith

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Revealed Wisdom

The words of Agur son of Jakeh. The oracle.

 The man declares, I am weary, O God; I am weary, O God, but I can prevail. Surely I am too stupid to be a man. I have not the understanding of a man. I have not learned wisdom, nor have I knowledge of the Holy One. Who has ascended to heaven and come down? Who has gathered the wind in his fists? Who has wrapped up the waters in a garment? Who has established all the ends of the earth?  What is his name, and what is his son’s name? Surely you know! Every word of God proves true; he is a shield to those who take refuge in him. Do not add to his words, lest he rebuke you and you be found a liar. ~Proverbs 30.1-6

The search for wisdom is difficult even when you are doing it right. But when a man searches for wisdom divorced from God’s revelation, it is frustrating, futile, and fruitless. This revelation-less search for wisdom is what Agur describes in the first few verses at the beginning of Proverbs 30. The man is weary in his search. He doesn’t know what it means to be a man in this world. He doesn’t understand the meaning and purpose of it all and how to put his own life in relationship with everything else because he has no knowledge of the Holy One. Divorced from God’s revelation he cannot answer the questions, “Who am I?” and “Why am I here?”

This man has searched for wisdom using human reason divorced from divine revelation. This is not an uncommon human experience. This is how man fell in the beginning and how he continues to try to put his life and the world together ever since.

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A Heart For Wisdom

Approaching the book of Proverbs as a superficial “how-to” manual for relationships can be tempting. The practical wisdom saturates the pages. Those in the field of behavioral psychology could benefit greatly from reading Proverbs. Solomon gives us disciplines to employ that lead to productivity and long-term happiness. We are also given behaviors to avoid that are destructive. So, if we are not careful, we can read Proverbs like one might read Atomic Habits by James Clear, 12 Rules for Life by Jordan Peterson, or Extreme Ownership by Jocko Willink and Leif Babin. These books (and other books like them) have much to commend them, but they aren’t Proverbs.

Proverbs is not merely a manual for superficial techniques. At the heart of the wisdom of Proverbs is the matter of the human heart. The wisdom that God requires of us runs deeper than a mere manipulation of our situations to turn things to our benefit. The wisdom that God calls for is wisdom that captivates the heart.

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The Fear of the Lord

No other subject in Scripture is so fundamental and pervasive yet so misunderstood and confusing as the fear of the Lord. Throughout Scripture, we are encouraged and commanded on numerous occasions to fear God. Ecclesiastes 12.13 says that fearing God and keeping his commandments is the whole duty of man. The opening and possibly the controlling theme of Proverbs is, “The fear of Yahweh is the beginning of knowledge; fools despise wisdom and discipline” (Pr 1.7). But then we hear in 1John 4.18 that “There is no fear in love, but perfect love casts out fear.” The one command we hear possibly more often than any other is “Fear not.” We need not even go across the Scriptures to see this paradox. Exodus 20 has it all in one passage:

Now when all the people saw the thunder and the flashes of lightning and the sound of the trumpet and the mountain smoking, the people trembled, and they stood far off and said to Moses, “You speak to us, and we will listen; but do not let God speak to us, lest we die.” Moses said to the people, “Do not fear, for God has come to test you, that the fear of him may be before you, that you may not sin.” (Ex 20.18-20)

 “Do not fear” because God has come to test you “that the fear of him may be before you.” Do not fear because God wants you to fear. Any first-time reader is confused. So, are we to fear, or are we not to fear? Yes. Just as with anything else in Scripture (or in any other literature for that matter) we must understand the different senses and contexts in which “fear” is used.

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Taking Responsibility For Wisdom*

Solomon, principally addressing his son(s) (1.8; passim), states his purpose for writing Proverbs in his opening lines:

To know wisdom and discipline, to understand words of understanding,

to receive discipline in wise dealing, in righteousness, justice, and equity;

to give prudence to the simple, purposive knowledge to the youth (1.2-4, translation mine)

Proverbs is a catechism for princes, kings-in-waiting, to teach them how to fulfill their God-given mission of creating, building, and arranging the world-house that will be a dwelling place for God and his people. This is the dominion project given to the man from the beginning. To complete this project, he needs wisdom, the ability to understand relationships; what is good and evil, what is appropriate and inappropriate; how people relate to God, one another, and the non-human creation. Wisdom is the indispensable helper that will aid him in building the world-house so that it is good; that is, so that it fulfills its created purpose. Wisdom is skillful in relationships.

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The Spirit of Wisdom

At the Ascension, the Father’s pleasure with the Son was declared as he was highly exalted and given a name above all names: Lord of the world. He is creation’s king to whom all authority over heaven and earth has been given. He proved his ability to handle this position through his obedience, so the Father granted him this rule (Phil 2.6-11). Jesus now rules, making judgments of life and death for the world so that the world will take the shape of heaven; so that God’s will is done on earth as it is in heaven.

Jesus has … Jesus is … wisdom. Wisdom understands relationships, how things and people are supposed to fit together to form what is good, true, beautiful, and productive. Jesus knows how the world is supposed to be arranged; individual lives, families, societies, international relationships, architecture, gardens, and all other aspects of this world. He knows how heaven is to relate to the earth, how men and women are to relate to one another, and how it all fits together for the world’s ultimate purpose. He understands what is right(eous). Because of this, he is fit to be king, the lord of the world.

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