These last few days have been filled with long conversations with dear friends. I treasure them and their words with my heart. On one evening, we delved into each other’s lives and history; on another evening, we spent time dissecting the glories and agonies of life; and the other night, we sat around good food and delved–again–deep into our histories and who the shaping figures are in our lives. Even though parents speak in fragments to one another, I trust even those incomplete sentences–interrupted seven or eight times by the needs of four-year-olds–bore good fruit.
This is all a tribute to good conversation; the kind that leaves an imprint on the next day, and the next day. I am the kind of romantic who believes discipleship happens like that; through long conversations in the right direction. Some intimate, some intriguing, but always stimulating. There are people, and then there are people who are curious. The latter make good friends. These friendships are enriched by resurrection meals around a fire in good and in bad times.
One of the blessings I’ve had over the years is to speak freely about a host of issues that few pastors wish to discuss on social media, unless, of course, they take upon themselves anonymous identities. I met with a pastor a few months ago who wondered if I get a lot of “hate” from readers for the things I say. I was genuinely puzzled by his words. I simply take it as an exercise in written dialogue with others. Yes, some don’t like this or that, but I will take that rather than this sentiment.
I am part of a denomination that rarely if ever makes the map when it comes to national discourse. Our pastors are not well known; with few exceptions, they don’t make headlines, and when we do, it’s to engage in intramural discussions that 0.001% of evangelicals care to ponder and the other times, we find ourselves as the amusement of leftists.
I actually find this lack of exposure fairly comforting. It means that I, as a pastor of a growing congregation, have the luxury of opining about a host of topics I find to be biblically important, culturally necessary, and pastorally expedient without distractions. This allows me to minister to a small group of people that are interested in growth and find arguments built in lengthy paragraphs compelling.
In some ways, my goal of writing has always been to slowly, but surely, convince my readers that building frameworks for life are important, and thinking about current issues or rituals through a Christian perspective is crucial for the well-being of any society. I am still a believer in long-form conversation and dialogue about the good, true and beautiful, and I view it as an investment in the kingdom of God.
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