These days, everyone is talking about the importance of
community, authentic relationships, and being part of a group. This is true
whether you are a Christian or a neo-pagan. All sorts of groups are trying to
build community: neo-monasticism, new urbanism, political parties, homosexuals,
foodies, and socialists.
This desire to build and be part of a community is inherent
in what it means to be human. From the beginning, people were designed to be
part of something larger than themselves. We are made to be with other people.
This reality is inescapable.
Even though the desire for community is natural to humanity,
this does not mean we are doing it correctly. In fact, our society mostly has
it backwards and upside-down.
Post-Modern
Communities
The errors we find in today’s community projects stem from
the Post-Modern ideology rampant in our society. When Modernism failed to build
universal truth on human reason, Post-Modernism came in and began to question
all universal narratives. This skepticism of universal claims, often fueled by
the desire to be free from all authorities, encourages people to “find their
own truth” and to live by that.
But once the Post-Modern project has demolished universal truth (or at least tried to), it leaves people with lots of unique, individual experiences and there is no way to connect them all. Francis Schaeffer says it this way,
“…if he is going to be really rationally and intellectually consistent he can only dwell in a silent cocoon; he may know he is there but he cannot make the first move out of it.”[1]
The Post-Modern project has left people in a lonely and desolate place but people are not made for that kind of desolation so they rush to build communities to push back against the darkness. And the Post-Modern myth urges people to build communities because groups offer the individual a chance to be part of something larger than himself. If universal truth is too hard for any one person to find and know, then that person must settle for what he can find: a group of other people who think and act like himself. In this way, people think they can find some meaning by being part of a community.
The LGBT community is particularly strong in this kind of community work. Rosaria Butterfield testifies to this work in her book The Secret Thoughts of an Unlikely Convert. In some ways, the LGBT community builds community better than many Christian churches. But even these kinds of communities do not really last.
These communities do not endure because they are trying to
build community on shared experiences and interests. Can there be something like
“shared experiences” in a Post-Modern cosmos? Not really. The Intersectional Movement
is reinforcing the loneliness: I have such unique experiences that no other
human can know and understand what I have been through. When community is
merely based on experiences and desires, then these communities crumble when
these things change. If I no longer care for the current food trend, then I am
no longer part of the foodie community. The common desire and experience that
brought us together is no longer there.
In this way, we can see that the Post-Modern project of
community building will fail. There is no way to maintain a vibrant community
when there is no universal standard that both individuals and groups can appeal
to. Inevitably, the individual’s freedom and desires will be swallowed up by the
desires of the larger community. Without a universal standard, the community will
either bully the individual into submission or kick him out of the community.
In this way, the desire for community eats itself and the individual is
consumed by the Post-Modern community.
Real Community
The only place real community can be found is in Jesus and
in His Church. This is true for a couple of reasons. First, the Church is a
real community because it is the work of the Spirit not the work of man. The
Church did not come into existence because twelve guys back in Palestine
decided they wanted to form an “authentic community”. The second point is
related to this: the Church is not built around shared common interests or
experiences like a club or interest group.
The Church, from beginning to end, exists because it is a
work of the Spirit. In fact, the Church is the opposite of an interest group. If
the people in the Church had it their way, they would probably pick a lot of
other people to hang out with. But because it is the work of the Spirit, these
people are brought together into the same community. In this way, the Church is
the only place true and genuine diversity and harmony can be found. There is no
other reason all these weirdos could be gathered together into one community. This
kind of community just isn’t humanly possible.
How Christians Mess
Up Community
Christians are tempted to mess up Christian community in two ways. One is for us to think like the Post-Moderns and claim that Christians are the ones who build authentic community. The church is made up of Christians so it can look like it is made by Christians. The second error, which comes from the Post-Moderns also, is to think that Christians find their true purpose in community. We think, if only I can be with these people, or if I can worship with those people over there then I will be part of a real community and I will have a purpose. Both of these errors make an idol of community and these desires will destroy true community. Dietrich Bonhoeffer says it well, “He who loves his dream of a community more than the Christian community itself becomes a destroyer of the latter.”[2]
True Christian community can only be found when one is
seeking the creator of the community: Jesus. Bonhoeffer writes, “Christian
community is like the Christian’s sanctification. It is a gift of God which we
cannot claim.”[3]
The first place we must look for true community is the fellowship of Jesus. Only
in Jesus can real Christian community be found. The only way to hold on to community
is to look away from community and toward Jesus. In this way, Christian
community is not like Post-Modern community at all because as Bonhoeffer says,
“We are bound together by faith, not by experience.”[4]
Jesus is the head of His Church and He is the one building the community with
His Spirit. All other communities are shams and fakes. The key then is to look
to Jesus first and then true Christian community will flow from that.
[1] Francis Schaeffer, True Spirituality, p. 124.
[2] Dietrich Bonhoeffer, Life Together, p. 27.
[3]
Bohoeffer, Life Together, p. 30.
[4] Bonhoeffer, Life Together, p. 39.
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