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Tattoos: A cry for help and a longing for relationship

Guest Post by Rev Dr Steve Jeffery, Minister at Emmanuel Evangelical Church, London, England (BlogFacebookTwitter)

Someone who wants a tattoo is trying to say something. And sometimes, I’m afraid, I fear it’s just a form of narcissism: “I just can’t be happy unless there’s something about me that makes me different, that draws attention to the uniqueness and individuality of me, to the unique and individual claim that have on your attention. Please can we talk about me now – my life, my loves, my experiences?”

This remains the case whatever particular design of tattoo the young Narcissus has in mind. Indeed, this is exactly the point: Some people like wildlife, so they want a dolphin tattoo on their ankle; some people like death metal, so they want a 6-inch tarantula crawling across their face; some people like Christian Cool, so they want El Shaddai in Hebrew spanning their C3 to C6 cervical vertebrae. Whatever. But in every case, the message is the same: “This is me, please will you notice me.”

This tendency is strongest in teenagers (and adults who are still acting like teenagers), who naturally go through periods of (often understandable) insecurity, and is good reason for any parent to say to an under-18-year-old (and any wise friend to say to an under-30-year-old), “No, you can’t (shouldn’t) have a tattoo now. You really will grow out of it.”

Sometimes, however, there’s something else going on. This narcissism can be a sign of a deeper relational pathology. People just don’t have friends – at least, they don’t have friends they feel able to talk to about things that really matter to them. In such instances, the tattoo is a cry for a particular kind of relationship, one in which we can get beyond the superficial and talk about our deepest, most intense, most joyful, most painful experiences.

This need is understandable: Of course a teenage girl wants to talk about the fact that the LORD alone has been her Almighty One, her Shaddai; of course the newly-engaged 22-year-old Joshua wants to talk about Judy; of course a bereaved couple want to talk about the death of a child. But the solution to these needs is not to parade them across our bodies, but to pursue the kinds of relationships that will meet them.<>продвинуть в гугле

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String of same-sex marriage rulings broken

“Roane County [Tennessee] Circuit Judge Russell E. Simmons, Jr., of Kingston ruled in a case of two gay men who were married four years ago in Iowa and are now seeking a divorce in their home state of Tennessee.  Unlike every other court ruling — federal or state — since the Supreme Court’s decision in United States v. Windsor in June 2013, the judge rejected the idea that the Windsor decision undercut state authority to ban same-sex marriages.”

 

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Robin Williams Found Dead at the Age of 63

The famous comedian who made the world laugh with such roles as Mrs. Doubtfire was found dead, according to news sources.

His publicist wouldn’t confirm that it was a suicide, though he did issue this statement: “Robin Williams passed away this morning. He has been battling severe depression of late. This is a tragic and sudden loss. The family respectfully asks for their privacy as they grieve during this very difficult time.”

Here’s the release from the Marin County Sheriff’s Office:

On August 11, 2014, at approximately 11:55 am, Marin County Communications
received a 9-1-1 telephone call reporting a male adult had been located unconscious
and not breathing inside his residence in unincorporated Tiburon, CA. The Sheriff’s
Office, as well as the Tiburon Fire Department and Southern Marin Fire Protection
District were dispatched to the incident with emergency personnel arriving on scene at
12:00 pm. The male subject, pronounced deceased at 12:02 pm has been identified as
Robin McLaurin Williams, a 63 year old resident of unincorporated Tiburon, CA.

An investigation into the cause, manner, and circumstances of the death is currently
underway by the Investigations and Coroner Divisions of the Sheriff’s Office.
Preliminary information developed during the investigation indicates Mr. Williams was
last seen alive at his residence, where he resides with his wife, at approximately 10:00
pm on August 10, 2014. Mr. Williams was located this morning shortly before the 9-1-1
call was placed to Marin County Communications. At this time, the Sheriff’s Office
Coroner Division suspects the death to be a suicide due to asphyxia, but a
comprehensive investigation must be completed before a final determination is made.
A forensic examination is currently scheduled for August 12, 2014 with subsequent
toxicology testing to be conducted.

This is another tragic death in the world of Hollywood.

According to one source, “Williams was a member of the Episcopal Church. He described his denomination in a comedy routine as “Catholic Lite—same rituals, half the guilt.”

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‘Child I baptized cut in half by ISIS’

“The five-year-old son of a founding member of Baghdad’s Anglican church was cut in half during an attack by the Islamic State on the Christian town of Qaraqosh.”

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Mark Driscoll is Removed from Acts 29

It is with deep sorrow that the Acts 29 Network announces its decision to remove Mark Driscoll and Mars Hill Church from membership in the network. Mark and the Elders of Mars Hill have been informed of the decision, along with the reasons for removal. It is our conviction that the nature of the accusations against Mark, most of which have been confirmed by him, make it untenable and unhelpful to keep Mark and Mars Hill in our network. In taking this action, our prayer is that it will encourage the leadership of Mars Hill to respond in a distinctive and godly manner so that the name of Christ will not continue to be dishonored.

The Board of the Acts 29 Church Planting Network

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Darrin Patrick
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Eric Mason
John Bryson
Bruce Wesley
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By In Theology

History and Theology: Shall the Twain Meet?

Guest Post by Dustin Messer

“There is nothing in this universe on which human beings can have full and true information unless they take the Bible into account.” – Cornelius Van Til

Over on the Discarded Image blog, Brandon G. Withrow suggests that “theology has nothing to do with history.” Indeed, this statement acts as a methodic refrain throughout his piece. Knowing Professor Withrow’s intellectual prowess, it’s with fear and trembling I’m going to humbly suggest that he’s dead wrong. Theology, in my view, has everything to do with history, and vice versa. Lest you think I’m exaggerating, here are three things that theology and history share:

Firstly, theology and history share creation. In the piece, Dr. Withrow rightly states that historians are limited to “the story of this world.” The problem is that “the story of this world” is precisely that with which theology is concerned! History and theology are both concerned with the same substance: namely, creation. And they are telling the same story: namely, “the story of this world.” If the Bible only dealt with the spiritual, I’d be happy to grant Dr. Withrow’s point. However, the Bible mischievously puts its nose in families, mountains, lakes, kings, nations, and other historical, created things. In fact, when not speaking about God himself, the Bible speaks about nothing but creation! Keep in mind, this is the very same creation with which history is out to chronicle. These are the cards we’re dealt. If you want a religion that tells the story of a different world, perhaps try your hand at a mystical, Eastern table, but from Genesis to Revelation, the Bible is telling the true story of this world. When you speak about creation, you are mixing theology and history.

Secondly, theology and history share sin. The fruit of mixing theology and history, Dr. Withrow argues, is all rotten. Admittedly, the examples he cites (erroneously trying to identify if a certain event is God’s judgment on a people, etc.) don’t smell too good! However, when you separate the disciplines completely, you lose the ability to call past events “wrong” or “right.” For instance, nearly all historians will characterize the move from chattel slavery, to the Emancipation Proclamation, to the civil rights marches, as a positive progression. Even Dr. Withrow’s ideal atheistic historian will want to call the freeing of slaves “good.” But by what standard is it good? Perhaps you think “but the ideal historian will not take sides, he’ll just state the facts.”  Hopefully, anyone who has watched the History Channel when Pawn Stars isn’t on will recognize the naiveté of such a sentiment. Even in deciding which events to recall and which to leave out, the historian is constructing a narrative in which there are “good” and “bad” actors. In this instance, the atheist historian is assuming the moral presuppositions of Christianity. Ironic since Dr. Withrow wants the Christian to borrow the atheist’s presupposition! Of course, you could be a Christian borrowing from an atheist borrowing from a Christian, but at some point that gets exhausting! When you speak about sin, you are mixing theology and history.

Thirdly, theology and history share salvation. Two thousand years ago Jesus came, in history, to liberate the fallen creation from sin. His physical corpse was then, in time and space, risen from the dead. Now, if you were taking the assumption, as Dr. Withrow would have you, that there is no God, you must conclude that Jesus did not rise from the dead. With your bias in place, it would be impossible to account for such a miracle. No, for the resurrection to happen, a personal God would have to be tinkering around in history, and that cannot be. To be fair, I’m sure Dr. Withrow would still want the Christian to “theologically” hold to the resurrection, just not “historically.” The problem, of course, is that this theological claim, like nearly all theological claims, is, by its nature, a historical one (1 Cor 15). The “theological” Jesus claims to be “historical” and the “historical” Jesus claims to be “theological,” if you separate the “theological” Jesus from the “historical” Jesus you lose both. When you speak about redemption, you are mixing theology and history.

In conclusion, Dr. Withrow correctly diagnosis the ideological presupposition behind my reading of history. He does not, however, suggest a non-ideological, “more objective” reading, as he would have you believe. Instead, he wants historians to be “essentially atheists.” What our views have in common is this: both start with a bias confession about God’s existence. I answer in the affirmative, he in the negative. The difference in our reading is this: mine is congruent with my worldview, his is not. If you are an atheist, feel free to “plant your feet firmly in the air,” as Schaeffer would say. A Christian, however, does not have the luxury of planting his feet in Christian theism while studying theology, but atheism while studying history. To the contrary, Christians study art, philosophy, science, history and anything else they please with the sure knowledge that this world is created and actively governed by a covenantal, Triune, personal God.

Dustin Messer is a graduate of Boyce College and Covenant Theological Seminary, Dustin is currently pursuing an MTh in Historical Theology at University of Glasgow.

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Interview with Matt Bianco at Trinity Talk: “My Letters to My Sons”

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From “Letters to My Sons:”

“Once upon a time, fathers had “the talk” with their sons. They used to say it was the talk about “the birds and the bees.” As a young man, I had that talk, not with my father, but with my godfather, John. I still remember it, mostly because I was fascinated by his willingness to tell me “adult” stuff.  Some fathers still have this talk, but it has become increasingly rare and increasingly more difficult to do. For many it seems unnecessary because of all the things our sons are learning in school and from pop culture. Fathers don’t need to talk to sons about changes in their bodies because someone else already has. And fathers can’t talk to sons about the birds and bees part because they don’t have the technical “body changing” stuff to break the ice anymore.  There is more to the talk, though, than just the information that is passed between father and son; the talk itself has a formative impact on the young man.”

In Letters to My Sons, M. G. Bianco writes real letters to his real sons on a variety of topics from love, hate, marriage, adultery, and interpersonal relationships. His letters seek to encourage his sons, and now other fathers and men to understand the basis and nature of relationships so that both parties to the relationship can be fully human.

M. G. Bianco is married to his altogether lovely high school sweetheart, Patty. They have three kids they homeschool together, and he works as the Director of Education for Classical Conversations. Is he a modern day C. S. Lewis? No. But he really enjoys reading him.

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Psychopathology and Covenant Blessings

Guest Post by Joshua Torrey

Psychopathology, the study of mental disorders, is not a light subject. Attempts to harmonize psychopathology (or psychology in general) with orthodox theology have left much to be desired. The Bible does reveal the mental state of its human authors (namely the book of Psalms) but it is not a textbook on counseling. So one must read books on psychopathology with caution in mind, and Scripture on the heart. On occasion, however, a practical point or reflection stands out unobtrusively and provides insightful depth to Biblical application. Take for example this quote from Christianity and Developmental Psychopathology (CAPS Book/IVP Academic):

“Children are more likely to form secure attachments to their parents when the parents are securely attached to each other. Insecure attachments between parents and children have also been linked to the parents’ own insecure attachment histories, but a secure marital attachment appears to buffer the effects of a parent’s own insecure attachment history” (128).

Marriage has a fascinating two way impact on relationships. A secure marital attachment helps mitigate history of parental detachment while providing a strong home for children. Admittedly, this insight does not undergird depictions of marriage in the Scriptures. Still, it is interesting to view the redemptive nature of God with this additional psychological lens. The prophet Ezekiel summarizes the history of Israel as the rescue and marriage of an abandoned child (Eze 16:3-4). The symbols of a broken home, adoption, and restored dignity are expressed in a heartfelt manner despite the Lord’s anger with Israel. The apostle Paul provides a foundationally eschatological doctrine of a similar adoption (Rom 8:22-25). The image of God adopting a people for Himself points to the breaking off from the history of rebellion and attachment to sin. The church looks forward to final day when this is true in the consummate new creation.

Cratered within Ezekiel’s imagery is the giving of God in marriage to the one He delivered. This language permeates the prophecies of Jeremiah and Hosea as God speaks out against the unfaithfulness of His people. Once again, the apostle Paul picked up this covenantal marriage language in his teaching on Christ and the church (Eph 5:31-32). The imagery is shared throughout the Scriptures. In the annals of salvation history God has delivered a people for Himself with historical and familial attachment to sin. Our Sovereign God breaks his people free from the behavior and addiction of cultures and families. He has broken these bonds and He provides the offspring of the covenant bountiful benefits.

The above psychopathology quote speaks in the same theme as the Scriptures using statistics and observations. Both point to the same set of truths. God’s covenant relationship of marriage is to be a blessing to children (Isa 59:21; Jer 32:38-40). God, in fact, desires “Godly offspring” (Mal 2:15) and so He instructs us to pass on to them our holy attachment to Him (Deut 6:6-9; Eph 6:4). Apart from faith, these truths instill fear of perverting God’s blessing (Eze 16:20). In faith, they are a tremendous blessing of hope.

For those who have grown up in difficult homes ravaged by sin, God’s covenant marriage to the church promises healing. Not only for themselves but also for their offspring. To those who have been abused, mistreated and retain histories of distrust and hatred God’s covenant speaks hope to generations. The Scriptures plainly teach this. Even developmental psychology has detected reflections of God’s desire to heal the world. This hope is not found merely in biological relationships and temporal marriages, just as this hope cannot be lost because of them. Instead, it is founded on the great marriage of Jesus Christ to His church: the sin-conquering marriage and covenantal-attachment that produces benefits in its covenant children.<>подбор слов гуглоптимизации а цена

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What’s wrong with tattoos?

Guest Post by Dr. Steve Jeffery, Minister at Emmanuel Evangelical Church

Of the many issues worth considering here, one that’s well worth reflecting on is the issue of permanence. A tattoo effectively freezes the wearer in time. Whatever he (or she) is saying with the tattoo at the moment it’s done, (s)he’ll be saying for ever.

This is most obviously a problem if the design is inherently sinful – an explicit picture, a pagan religious symbol, or some profane language, for example.

But other seemingly more innocuous designs can also create problems. Your teenage girlfriend Julie might love the design, but Wendy will probably be less impressed when you finally marry her ten years later.

Even things that appear harmless can, with the passing of the years, end up as badges of immaturity: a profound slogan can quickly become banal, and a teenager’s edgy motto can be childish on the arm of a 35-year-old.

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Hearing and Doing: Two Simple Tests

DOERS“But be doers of the word, and not hearers only, deceiving yourselves. For if anyone is a hearer of the word and not a doer, he is like a man who looks intently at his natural face in a mirror. For he looks at himself and goes away and at once forgets what he was like. But the one who looks into the perfect law, the law of liberty, and perseveres, being no hearer who forgets but a doer who acts, he will be blessed in his doing.” (James 1:22-25 ESV)

James gives us two tests to see whether we are both doers and hears, or merely “hearers only” of the word. It is important to know, because if we think we are both hearers and doers, while we’re not, we deceive ourselves. Based on the rest of James’ epistle, we could liken “hearers only” to those whose faith is dead, for it is lacking works. Living faith? Good; Dead faith? Bad; Hearers only? Bad; Both hearers and doers? Good. How will we know if we need to make adjustments, i.e., repent, if we cannot judge ourselves rightly?  James provides us with two tests in the text—one negative, one positive:

1.) The Negative test: The Man in the Mirror – A hearer, but no doer of the word looks “intently” in the mirror and then forgets. This is not a cursory look. This is not a passing glance. This is an analogy of a teenage girl, who works on her hair for hours, getting it just right, or of a teenage boy, who is just sure he sees some fuzz on his chin, inspecting every square millimeter until he knows for sure. James’ example of a “hearer only” is someone who looks intently at the mirror, and subsequently forgets what he or she saw. If a girl works for hours on her hair, is she going to forget what style she chose? If the boy finds a whisker, is he going to forget later what he saw? No. Not a chance.

But a person, who is only a hearer, walks away from the word forgetting what he heard while he was listening to the word. When temptations arise, there is no remembrance of how to flee or fight; when blessings come, there is no remembrance of who to thank. If one forgets what he heard while he was in the word, he is a hearer and not a doer. It is that simple.

2.) The Positive test: the Law of Liberty—The glorious thing about God’s law is that it sets one free. A law is a yoke—it constrains, but Jesus’ yoke is a light one—it constrains unto liberty, which is freedom from sin. There are only two choices: the light yoke of Jesus, or the heavy yoke of the world, the flesh, and the devil. There is no third option.

The one who is the hearer and the doer of the word is one who looks into the law of God and sees liberty. Who doesn’t want to be free? The doer of the word wants to be free unto Christ, while the hearer only wants to be free from Christ, but freedom from Christ is bondage to sin. “For freedom, Christ has set us free” (Galatians 5:1a), and “For whatever overcomes a person, to that he is enslaved.” (2 peter 2:19b) The negative test is that a hearer forgets: the positive test is that the doer acts, and when he acts, his actions are free from bondage to sin.

In Luke 10, in the Martha vs. Mary episode, Jesus said that Mary had chosen the better portion. Martha was busy “doing,” without stopping to “hear.” Mary was busy “hearing,” not yet “doing.” As she was sitting at his feet, Jesus said Mary was doing well. What would he have said if she arose and forgot everything he had just said to her? James tells us what Jesus would have said. It is the same thing Jesus says to us through James, “Be ye doers of the word, and not hearers only.”<>online gameчто такое pr а

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